Once, a husband found himself in a heart-wrenching predicament: in a moment of anger, he swore he would not speak to his wife unless she spoke to him first. His wife, no less hot-tempered, issued the same vow in return. Time passed, regret settled in—but both felt bound by their promises.
Seeking guidance, the husband first approached Imām Sufyān al-Thawrī, who advised that he must offer kaffārah (atonement) before breaking his oath. Saddened but determined to find mercy, the man then came to Imām Abū Ḥanīfah.
Imām Abū Ḥanīfah looked at him kindly and said:
“You need not pay kaffārah. Go and speak to your wife.”
News of this answer reached Imām Sufyān al-Thawrī, who was displeased, believing it to be erroneous. But Imām Abū Ḥanīfah — calm and composed — clarified:
“Recall that the wife, in responding ‘I will not speak to you unless you first speak to me,’ already spoke. Since her words broke the condition before yours could, the oath no longer holds, and no kaffārah is required.”
A Young Scholar’s Triumph Against Intentional Misguidance
In another tale, a Christian king, intent on casting doubt on Muslims, sent emissaries to Baghdad with three perplexing theological questions:
Who existed before Allah?
Which direction is Allah facing at this moment?
What is Allah doing right now?
The Caliph gathered the scholars, but none dared respond—until a young Imām Abū Ḥanīfah, with his father’s encouragement, stepped forward.
For the first question, he said:
“If you count backwards—4, 3, 2, 1—and then stop, what lies before ‘1’?”
The Christian replied, “Nothing.”
Imām Abū Ḥanīfah smiled and said, “Then if nothing precedes the metaphorical ‘one’, how can something precede the Real One?”
For the second question, he asked:
“When you light a candle, what direction does its glow illuminate?”
“Everywhere,” the man answered.
Imām Abū Ḥanīfah continued: “So does the Light of all lights shine only one way?”
Finally, for the third question, he said:
“To answer your question, you must come down and let me ascend the pulpit instead. For right now, Allah is raising up the one who seeks truth and humbling the one who stands for falsehood.”