Khushu’ originates in the heart, and its presence is reflected through the actions of the body. The limbs and senses follow the direction of the heart—so if the heart becomes distracted or influenced by the whispers of Shaytan, the outward acts of worship will also become flawed. The heart can be compared to a king, with the body’s faculties as his soldiers who carry out his commands. If the king is overthrown, the soldiers are left in disarray—just as the body loses its proper worship when the heart lacks sincere devotion.
Hudhayfah (may Allah be pleased with him) used to warn, “Beware of false Khushu’.” When asked what that meant, he explained, “It is when a person’s body appears humble, but there is no humility or focus in the heart.” Similarly, Al-Fudayl ibn ‘Ayad (may Allah have mercy on him) said that it was disliked for someone to outwardly display more Khushu’ than what truly existed in their heart. One of the early scholars once noticed a man physically displaying signs of Khushu’ through his posture and movements. He said to him, “O so-and-so, true Khushu’ is in the heart,” pointing to his chest, “not in the shoulders,” as he pointed to the man’s outward behavior.
Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allah have mercy on him) explained the difference between genuine Khushu’ and hypocritical Khushu’. He said that true Khushu’ comes from a heart that is deeply aware of and humbled by Allah’s majesty and greatness. It is filled with awe, fear, modesty, love, and a sense of gratitude for Allah’s blessings, as well as a recognition of one’s own sins. This deep inner state causes the heart to be completely submissive and broken before Allah—and naturally, this inner humility is reflected in the body’s actions during prayer.
On the other hand, hypocritical Khushu’ is merely an outward display. It appears impressive to others, but the heart remains unaffected and disconnected from true humility.
One of the Companions used to say, “I seek Allah’s protection from false Khushu’.” When asked what he meant by that, he explained, “It is when the body shows signs of humility, but the heart lacks true Khushu’.”
A person who genuinely experiences Khushu’ before Allah no longer feels overwhelmed by physical desires. His heart is cleansed and illuminated by the awareness of Allah’s greatness. His personal desires fade away due to the deep fear and reverence that fills his heart. As a result, his body becomes calm, his heart becomes dignified and at peace through the remembrance of Allah, and a sense of tranquility descends upon him from his Lord. Such a person becomes truly humble before Allah—and real humility comes from a heart that is at ease and content in its connection with Him.
“Khushu in prayer occurs when a person clears their heart of distractions, concentrates fully on the prayer, and gives it priority over everything else. Only then can they truly experience peace and joy through it.”